Wednesday, February 25, 2009

daybreak drama







At the entrance to our residence are an assortment of pots in various sizes and shapes. Some old and some just new. They house an amazing variety of plants. We see them each morning before we leave for work. We look for tiny new flowers or buds that have sprung up in the quiet of the night when we were asleep, oblivious to what was going on around us and deeply involved in our own dream world.

We invariably find something new that shows up only in the delightful hour of daybreak.







The hibiscus opens up a scarlet red bloom with a tiny set of fingers at the heart, holding soft yellow balls of pollen. The subtle smell is at once captivating and elusive.






Then there is the nasturtium, which is equally exquisite in its display of cuplike flowers in yellow orange glory, almost trying to imitate the vast canvas of colours that the sunrise has created as a sort of wake up call. When I look closer I spot the whisker -like stem which balances the flower so beautifully, like the clown in the circus walking the tight rope. The disk shaped dark green leaves that surround this delicate flower seem to be giving a standing ovation.






There are other flowers too, in the small garden that provides the background.






The honeysuckles are already hosting a breakfast party to the honeybees. The morning glory seems to be still in half a mind to open its purple blue flowers, hoping that the bees will go away and let it enjoy the warmth of the morning sun, without their noisy interruption.






I enjoy these subtle games played by the flowers while I sip my first cup of coffee for the day. It is only a short time, a few minutes before I get busy with the morning rituals. But that short time sets the pace for the day. I wouldn’t like to miss it except under unavoidable circumstances such as heavy rain or storm.






How blessed I am to be so fortunate to enjoy such brilliant displays of nature. The laughing flowers always fascinate me.


Saturday, February 7, 2009

BIG MOM








BIG MOM


When I observe children talking to each other I gain a lot of wisdom into some areas of life and the living, by simply shifting my focus.
The other day I overheard two youngsters talking about their background.
Kid1: My dad is the chief of Police
Kid2: So what? My dad is a Judge.
Kid1: In our house we have many mango trees.
Kid2: So what? We have many banana trees.
Kid1: We have 5 dogs and they bark all the time.
Kid2: So what? We have 7 cows and they give milk all the time.
Kid1: Our car is bigger than your car.
Kid2: So what? My mom is bigger than your mom.
At that shocking revelation of reality the first kid lost his ground and couldn’t come up with any other point. The main reason was that the big mom was coming towards them and there was no way to deny the fact of the matter.

I knew that lady very well since she had visited the school many times to discuss about her kid’s progress in class in the past.

In the days that followed I was amazed to see what a single word could do to transform people when it hits them at the right point at the right time.

Apparently she had heard what her child had said to his friend although she didn’t react to it on that day.

She had probably never thought about the way her son perceived her dimensions and how he related to it.

She didn’t like to be perceived as a bigger mom and so she enrolled herself for massive doses of workout at our school gym and her determination was so strong that within 3 months she was a very different looking person.

Perhaps if her son happens to get engaged in a similar discussion with a friend this time he may well be saying “so what? My mom is prettier than your mom”.

Motivation is a powerful tool.